During my stay in New Zealand, I got the
chance to meet with a wide variety of people, out of them, some of them were
married and a few were singles. Initially, I was having a hitch to introduce to
them. Since, there has been a language barrier in our circle. Because, we all
were from various countries and having different backgrounds, so there was
nothing common among us. But, circumstances put us together to stay at one
place to live like one family.
It was something alike, when two different
breeds are put in a den then slowly the affection grows there, despite of the
fact that they are different breeds. Same thing happened here with us also. With
the passage of time, we compromised with the situation and started living like one
family. We knew that there is no other go, just to make an attempt to overcome the
situation by forgetting the past to live happily. Gradually, we started
understanding each other through gestures and feelings. Later on, I tried to
know them by learning their mother tongue and having the skills to understand
their texts. Alternatively, I become full mature to understand them through
their languages.
During our exchange of information, I could
get the chance to know the past life of one of my friends. I was really swayed
in emotions by going through his tale. He had been passing the most pathetic
time of his life due to his personal problems. My this mate is still a single,
but having a trouble in the family due to a bitter fact, that the parent with
whom he passed full life, they are not his biological parent. He came to know
that fact through some custody papers, which they served at that time, when they
acquired his custody from his real parents.
Now it is proved that he is an adopted child.
But, through some source, he could come to know that his biological parents are
still alive and residing in the vicinity of Auckland. He accepted that the
purpose of his visit to New Zealand is specially to find them through that
source, which was used by his present parents for serving documents to get
his custody. He is confirmed that this is one such source, which can give the
complete idea and address to get them. This is only the way to find them.
It is so urgent for him to find this source,
especially to get the access to know them. He is not having any doubt about his
nurturing and care, what he got from his adoptive parents. But, he wants to
know the fact, what was the problem, which led his parent to gift him to some
other couples.
He had been trying so aggressively, but so
far, he could not succeed, He is not sure, whether he will get a success in finding
them. He had been searching them for months together, but this search remains still
incomplete due to missing clues to reach to them. He had lost all hopes to find
them, but not the passion.
As a true friend of him, we have been keeping
his hopes alive by giving the smearing word to soothe him for having a focus on
his work. Otherwise, it would ruin his complete life, because he won’t get the
peace of mind. But, we are aware of the fact that this is not an easy task to
find them, as he can’t complete this challenging task independently, unless, he
is getting some better helps. Lastly what I can do just to pray for him, so
that he succeed in his mission and find his true parents.
